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“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it” – Truman Capote Masturbation is a sticky subject—especially for women. Although more men than women masturbate, masturbation is a “particularly important predictor of sexual health and happiness for women, more so than for men,” says Noam Shpancer, Ph.D., a professor [...]

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Relationship Advice For Women: LiYana Silver, Relationship Expert and Coach, is known for her bold, fresh guidance for women and their partners, who want to step out of painful patterns and relationship ruts and into partnerships that are strong, sexy, sane and built to withstand the pressures of the 21st Century. Bringing over 10 years [...]

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Between Ceopatra, Susan B. Anthony and the Spice Girls, woman have been always been holding the reigns to power, it’s only now we’re making it public!  We’re making more money than men, we’re starting more businesses and we’re proving that the “weaker sex” myth makes about as much sense as the moon being made of [...]

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It should come as no surprise that in the worlds of IT, computer sciences and, my personal favourite, business, there’s no shortage of women who want to hear about the success, hardships, and advice from other females like them. The last list of “Women-in-Tech”  quotes were well received and so we knew we had to [...]

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In 1974, the American philosopher Thomas Nagel proposed a thought experiment. Don’t worry; this isn’t going to be a philosophical diatribe—it’s going to be about women and men. Anyway, Nagel, while trying to solve a conundrum about the mind that philosophers have debated for centuries, proposed there is something important that materialists have ignored in [...]

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I’m a bookworm pure and simple. If I have a free minute you’ll probably catch me with my nose in a book.   That said, I’m also a snob, so when Karla (Tokii Founder) asked me to read one of her Harlequin novels from the “Blaze” series,  I was skeptical.  For those who don’t know already, [...]

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  If we were to ask the dictionary… ‘objectification‘ is defined as; to degrade to the status of a mere object, giving the example; “a deeply sexist attitude that objectifies women. So basically we’re talking about taking a walking, talking, living, breathing human being and treating them, whether via thoughts, actions or perceptions, in the [...]

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The walking verbal car crashes that is Mr John Mayer features in this month’s Rolling Stone. John reaches a state of teary eyed indignation over Taylor Swift making him look somewhat foolish in her song, rumored to be about him; Dear John. Well you know what Mayer; boo-fricking-hoo. You do a great job all by [...]

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I’m a “hyphen” wife, Karla Stephens-Tolstoy, and I’m happy to be so, but it took me about eight years after Al and I got married before I tacked on the Tolstoy name.  For me it had everything to do with convenience, changing your name on driver’s licenses, passports, cell phone bills, and everything else can [...]

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From the new frontiers of Personal Grooming to a recession-proof sex toys industry, we’ve got titillation, arousal and sex on the brain (though admittedly, some of us more than others).  On top of that, we’ve all got our own ideas about the role of sex, the roles of the sexes, and role-playing during sex!  There [...]

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