Tokii Lab

By: Adrienne Sex addiction as become the butt of pretty well every joke told the last few years, thanks to a string of red-handed celebrities hiding behind the tag.  While it may be funny coming out of the TV screen, it’s anything but funny when you’re coping with it in your own relationship. The truth [...]

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  When Is It Ok To Have An Affair? To get started with this, let’s get one thing clear. There is no right or wrong answer to this question.  On one side you will have people tell you that in no way, shape, or form is having an affair okay. Then on the other side [...]

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Keeping up appearances – it’s something everyone feels compelled to do.  Long-term relationships are the stuff of a stable society, or so it’s said.  We have a certain idea of what it means to be happy, and that notion includes having a “significant other”.  But really, how fantastic is marriage?  Why do we pretend things [...]

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Love & Memories: We’re Giving Away a LoveBook a Day For the Next 5 Days. Win with Tokii.com The daily prizes are being provided by lovebookonline.com. Their love books are the only custom gift book that lets your partner know exactly what it is about them you love. Unique, fun and easy to create! They’re [...]

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Whether it’s feet or Fishnets, weird piercings or funky costumes, We wanted to know more, and we asked our more sexually adventurous Tokii members to take part in our “Fetish” DiscoveryGame, just to figure out what it was about what’s getting those freak flags flying.  We’ve never had results that are more ambiguous. Here’s what we [...]

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The Doghouse:  Anybody who’s been in a relationship long enough to outlast a carton of milk has been there, and anybody who’s in it for the long haul with the woman he loves will be there again. It’s just that there’s so many different ways to screw up; sins of omission and commission, things you [...]

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