Tokii Lab

Hiking with friends, sweating through a yoga class, or playing a rousing game of soccer can burn a few calories, we all know there are more…satisfying ways to work up an appetite (wink, wink). These sports of the bedroom variety may just leave you wandering into the kitchen at odd hours of the night or [...]

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First, my deepest condolences regarding your loss. It has long been said that there is no more devastating thing a couple (or even a person) can experience than the loss of a child. It doesn’t seem the natural order of things. Because it is so fundamentally difficult a loss to experience, it comes with it [...]

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Outspoken Democrat, James Carville, and his equally-politically-feisty Republican wife, Mary Matalin, make it hard not to view passionate political differences in a somewhat romantic light. The fact is, however, the famous, political couple is more the exception than the rule when it comes to mixing love with politics.  Why?  The way we view politics speaks [...]

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Luckily, to be a sexual go-getter you don’t need to do a lot of talking—you just need to do! I’m tempted to quote a very famous athletic wear slogan here, but I’ll restrain myself, since it probably popped into your mind already. There’s a lot of truth to the idea that sometimes we over-think ourselves [...]

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First, this is a really tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. Start by knowing. You’re not alone. 3.3 million men (11.1% of U.S. fathers) are reported to live with at least one stepchild in the U.S. I can assure you that while each family comes with its own, unique look and feel, divorce is never [...]

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For the past several years a strange little dance has occurred each autumn as television networks begin unleashing their new primetime line-ups. The sexuality (or lack thereof) of each regular character from scripted shows is analyzed and recorded – then plugged into a math equation. That’s how we know, for instance, that this year CBS [...]

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Once the pilgrims hit Plymouth Rock, they left their tea behind and headed straight to the drive thru. The differences between the British and Americans are obvious, especially during Christmas. Watch the video and discover how one couple shares the magic of the season. Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join [...]

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“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it” – Truman Capote Masturbation is a sticky subject—especially for women. Although more men than women masturbate, masturbation is a “particularly important predictor of sexual health and happiness for women, more so than for men,” says Noam Shpancer, Ph.D., a professor [...]

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In response to requests for Tokii to answer questions from members and the public at large in a frank and direct way, we have brought onboard, a tough talking, calls it like he sees it individual,  Straight Shooter Steve. From time to time, Steve will field your questions in his unique and blunt style. Be [...]

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You are right, Sina, that there is nothing we can do about people and their opinions. We are all made up of different stuff, however, and have different levels of sensitivity to certain things. Sounds like your wife is really having trouble shaking the behavior and attitudes toward her at work. It’s understandable. Since these [...]

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