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Hiking with friends, sweating through a yoga class, or playing a rousing game of soccer can burn a few calories, we all know there are more…satisfying ways to work up an appetite (wink, wink). These sports of the bedroom variety may just leave you wandering into the kitchen at odd hours of the night or [...]

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First, my deepest condolences regarding your loss. It has long been said that there is no more devastating thing a couple (or even a person) can experience than the loss of a child. It doesn’t seem the natural order of things. Because it is so fundamentally difficult a loss to experience, it comes with it [...]

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  Hi.  A tough situation for sure.  At the time you’re in the thick of things, it can seem like an earth-shattering balance must be struck (you know the one:  seeming cool enough to continue the superficial game of fun and sex while still maintaining your dignity and having your needs met).  Stepping back a [...]

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Outspoken Democrat, James Carville, and his equally-politically-feisty Republican wife, Mary Matalin, make it hard not to view passionate political differences in a somewhat romantic light. The fact is, however, the famous, political couple is more the exception than the rule when it comes to mixing love with politics.  Why?  The way we view politics speaks [...]

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New Tokii Guest Experts share their opinion on faith and religion, both for the individual and within our daily relationships. How do you share your faith? Try This DiscoveryGame – discover yourself and your partner on a sexual, emotional and intellectual level and have fun while doing it.             Touch base with Tokii. [...]

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“Life is 10 percent circumstance and 90 percent how we deal with it.”  ~ Michael Durrant And let’s face it.  Everyone “deals with it.”  You can run from it, but eventually at least one “it” will find you. “It” is the toughest of life circumstances.  “It” can be the times we don’t see in our [...]

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Usually, when someone is unwilling to make-love in the light, they’re ashamed of something they can only hide in the dark. If your boyfriend’s only sexual reticence is an aversion to sunlight, then, as you suspect, he is probably ashamed of his body. Body shame has grown exponentially among men in recent years.  Once considered [...]

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You are right, Sina, that there is nothing we can do about people and their opinions. We are all made up of different stuff, however, and have different levels of sensitivity to certain things. Sounds like your wife is really having trouble shaking the behavior and attitudes toward her at work. It’s understandable. Since these [...]

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A quick video how the stresses of the holiday season can affect your relationship. Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join Tokii Today! Like Tokii on Facebook, Follow us on Twitter. Get inspired with Tokii Pinterest, Get a behind the scenes look at Tokii on Instagram.

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Between the end of the glass ceiling, the “Mancession” and the chaning nature of families, ideas about “Manliness” are changing faster than anybody can keep up with. The fella in the Tokii Community are not exception, as our DiscoveryGames reveal! Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join Tokii Today! Like Tokii [...]

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