Tokii Lab

  There’s nothing in the average life of a woman that puts her body and mind through the ringer more thoroughly than having a baby pushed through it.  It’s not something anyone who hasn’t done it can ever really appreciate, that includes each and every man I know, and it probably accounts for the numbers [...]

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The human imagination is the most powerful tool that we’ve come across so far.  It’s responsible for our science, for our art, and according to half of the Tokii Community’s men and women, it’s the driver behind our role-playing in the bedroom.  Role Playing is a change to step outside ourselves and tease, excite and [...]

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There’s no feeling on earth like when you’re first in love.  Everything takes a back seat to that girl or boy sitting across from you, they’re on your mind all the time, and the sex feels like you’re planting a flag on a new universe made just for you.   After a while though, that satellite [...]

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We’ve all got Fantasies, and for some of us that means inventing light sabers or getting our face on the twenty dollar bill, for most of us those fantasies revolve around the bedroom (or shower, or the boss’s desk at work or…ahem.). That’s find and good, and what’s better is that half of our Tokii [...]

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It’s been said many times, many ways, but the pursuit of happiness is basically what working, loving, getting up in the morning boils down to.  Just as everybody has the odd day where everything goes right and there’s a reason to smile everywhere you turn, sometimes things just suck.  As a fella wiser than myself [...]

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This Just In:  Men and Women Appreciate Sex Differently!  Now that you’ve recovered from this Boudoir Bombshell, take a look at the Tokii’s Breakdown of What our Guys and Gals are thinking!  Did you know 48% of men think about sex as often as they breathe?  Who says we can’t do two things at once? [...]

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  Couples today deal with complexities that our parents never had too. Our world is moving faster, our social networks are now largely based in a digital world, and we’re constantly bombarded with a culture of infidelity, lust, and the “quick-fix”. With the support of Tokii’s own experts, Licensed Professional Counselor Alison Sigmon, and Certified [...]

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Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, and except for the very few of us guys with foresight that stretches past our nose, it means a trip to the florist, a blind rush through jacked up prices and frantic coffee break-forsaking cashiers, and a dozen red roses for our better halves. Well, it turns out that the [...]

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Red heart shaped boxes of chocolates, Florist displays of red roses, Jewelers weighing in too. What do you get for her that’s fresh and romantic? What do you get for him to tell him just how special he is to you?  We may have the answer for you. Play the DiscoveryGame Valentine’s Day: Gift Giving.  [...]

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He’s away on a exercise. She’s been shipped overseas. The shop windows are all red and white, and face it there is no FTD where your lover is. You feel silly, it’s just a commercialized celebration, but you still want to do something to warm the heart of the heart that you love the most. [...]

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