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First, my deepest condolences regarding your loss. It has long been said that there is no more devastating thing a couple (or even a person) can experience than the loss of a child. It doesn’t seem the natural order of things. Because it is so fundamentally difficult a loss to experience, it comes with it [...]

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First, this is a really tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. Start by knowing. You’re not alone. 3.3 million men (11.1% of U.S. fathers) are reported to live with at least one stepchild in the U.S. I can assure you that while each family comes with its own, unique look and feel, divorce is never [...]

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Put simply, bedroom boundaries are important because sex is important. In fact, research suggests… it’s really important (but if you pay much attention to Tokii, you already know that)! In a nutshell, it increases intimacy long after clothing is hurried back on, it elevates mood, it burns calories and well – the list of benefits [...]

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While reality TV has reshaped the landscape of television, it can carry a heavy cost in its wake.  For the stars being perpetually shared with the viewing audience, their romantic relationships are a frequent casualty – almost a sacrifice in the race for ratings.  Who’d have thought that broadcasting edited snippets of famous living could [...]

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Author:  Derek Ciapala Marriage: Is the Grass Greener on the Other Side? Have you ever wondered if life would be better if you weren’t married? Have you dreamed about being married to someone besides your current spouse? If the answer is yes, don’t worry. Many people think about how different their lives would be if [...]

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Having a kid, and the responsibilities that come with parenthood, seems to be a somewhat different experience for celebrities.  For whatever reason, many of them appear to approach the prospect much more casually then the rest of us can afford.  The endless parade of international adoptions certainly doesn’t help that image, as the actual kids [...]

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Despite the grumbly water-cooler comments sometimes spewed about spouses, the fact is… most still do it (marry, that is).  Why?  Some of the obvious benefits include things like:  built-in best friend for life (um, awesome!), built-in nookie for life (um, awesomer!), an automatic fan-club member and cool tax benefits.  Once married, people learn pretty quickly [...]

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Now that both Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston are each actively planning to remarry, a familiar drumbeat arises in the constant coverage of their lives.  This time it’s framed as a race to the alter, but in reality it’s a continuing marathon towards closure, marked at every milestone by headlines.  In the spectator sport that [...]

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If reports are to be believed, Scientology seems to have been a major part, if not the deal breaker in the breakdown of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes recent relationship demise, leading us to query – just what effect does it have on relationships? Scientology; what is it? This is a tricky one and it [...]

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It’s been a little more then a year since Jennie Garth’s 11-year marriage to actor Peter Facinelli ended suddenly, and at his request.   While life and career has seemingly moved forward for each, in Hollywood one never has to look far for a sympathetic ear whose been through it as well.  She has lots [...]

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