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I am 35 and I am single. This has been the case since 2009 at which time I split up from my long-term partner, if five years fits in to your definition of long-term. I don’t particularly like being single nor do I like reinforcing a cliché by taking some solace in the single life by [...]

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  Hi.  A tough situation for sure.  At the time you’re in the thick of things, it can seem like an earth-shattering balance must be struck (you know the one:  seeming cool enough to continue the superficial game of fun and sex while still maintaining your dignity and having your needs met).  Stepping back a [...]

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I got to the restaurant a little more than ten minutes early, so I decided to wait around outside a while to make sure I wouldn’t seem too eager. I don’t love the politics of dating and relationships, but these things are necessary when you aren’t completely sure about the person you’re meeting. I took [...]

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Contrary to the behavior of – say – EVERY GUY IN THE UNIVERSE, guys don’t really want their girl to be easy.  It’s almost like he’s got an internal dialogue going on that goes something like this: If she’s into it, I’m definitely NOT going to say “no.”  If she’s not into it, this is [...]

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First, this is a really tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. Start by knowing. You’re not alone. 3.3 million men (11.1% of U.S. fathers) are reported to live with at least one stepchild in the U.S. I can assure you that while each family comes with its own, unique look and feel, divorce is never [...]

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Tanya has been known to write recipes on napkins, receipts, and Post-it notes, but has stopped short of having recipes tattooed to her derrière, though her favorites have left their mark there anyway. Some Like It Hot Whether you’re seeking refuge from scorching temperatures outside or want to see the mercury rising in the bedroom, try [...]

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Try These DiscoveryGames - discover yourself and your partner on a sexual, emotional and intellectual level and have fun while doing it. Tantalizing Tokii Reads - to make relationship work into fun. Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join Tokii Today! Like Tokii on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Get inspired with Tokii Pinterest. Get a behind the scenes look [...]

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The Lovers’ Lunch Lunch dates can be magical. At their best, they mean spending the morning looking forward to seeing your special someone, and then savoring the memory all afternoon. With a well-chosen menu, you get to relish the delicious food in the same way. These recipes will certainly allow for that. Purposefully light yet [...]

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Take your lover on a tasting tour of exotic Southeast Asia Southeast Asia is bursting with vibrant colors, sultry combinations, and sensual textures. There is no better place to whisk your lover away for a culinary adventure of hot, sweet, sour, salty, and any number of mysterious flavors. Close your eyes, inhale the exquisite aromas, [...]

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  Try These DiscoveryGames – discover yourself and your partner on a sexual, emotional and intellectual level and have fun while doing it.   Tantalizing Tokii Reads- to make relationship work into fun. Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join Tokii Today! Like Tokii on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Get [...]

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