Tokii Lab

You said you “recently” found out about his cheating. I think that explains part of what you are going through right now. Although the infidelity occurred a few years ago, for you it’s as if it just happened. In your mind and heart—and relative to the process of healing—he might as well have cheated last [...]

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  Dazed and Confused, I have one word for you…boundaries. Some may call it expectations and others may call it standards. What you call it is irrelevant but what’s important is having them. Boundaries will determine how the relationship will move forward. While dating, there is an intense battle over relationship boundaries. How to deal [...]

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  Try These DiscoveryGames – discover yourself and your partner on a sexual, emotional and intellectual level and have fun while doing it.   Tantalizing Tokii Reads- to make relationship work into fun. Touch base with Tokii. Get Together. Get Talking. Get Intimate. Join Tokii Today! Like Tokii on Facebook. Follow us on Twitter. Get [...]

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Chloe Taylor is a quirky Welsh copywriter with a flair for life coaching and champagne drinking. Selma: Well aren’t Zach Galifianakis and Quinn Lundberg super duper oober cute together. We are sooooo happy for them even though (as it always goes in Hollywood) they won’t last forever. I recommend this DiscoveryGame for the newlyweds so [...]

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Chloe Taylor is a quirky Welsh copywriter with a flair for life coaching and champagne drinking. Selma: Email, Twitter, Facebook, MySpace, YouTube, LinkedIn and scores of others are part of the “new and wonderful” ways we can now connect with one another, each with its own culture and unique set of rules for dating. Yippie… [...]

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One of the strengths of Internet dating is that it’s anonymously impersonal, which helps take the sting out of rejection. If you’re interested in someone who notices your profile or you’re intrigued by a computer-generated match, let the e-mail begin. If you’re not interested, delete the e-mail with about the same level of remorse you’d [...]

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Impeccable question. The underlying issue (inevitable wearing off of the “new love euphoria” that all couples eventually experience) is actually addressed in the question itself (setting realistic expectations and firing up the cooling engines). About expectations. Let’s just put it out there right now to disarm it: Sex. Changes. For everyone. It changes over time [...]

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As word broke that the Tom Cruise-Katie Holmes union had been pronounced dead – another smaller story caught my eye about the last truly seismic split in Hollywood.  It seems George Clooney got some ink when TMZ realized he’d shared a private jet with Jennifer Aniston just hours before meeting up with best bud Brad [...]

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It was one year ago this week that Will Smith first discussed having a less then traditional relationship with wife Jada Pinkett Smith to a British tabloid.  The two have been dogged with questions for better clarification of his words ever since. One of the easiest ways for a celebrity couple to generate headlines (aside [...]

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With everyone from Anna Paquin, Lady Gaga and even Snooki openly revealing their bisexuality, some are left to wonder if this marks another sea change in the public’s growing acceptance of differing sexual identities. Still one has to ask the obvious question – where are all the guys? As we stride forward into what many [...]

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