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Sexuality and Aging: Oral Sex

This article may shock you. The images that are drawn to mind may not be ones that those who are younger than middle-aged will appreciate, but sex doesn’t stop when her breasts sag or his abdominal muscles
If you thought oral sex was fun as a young person, just wait until your older. The art of receiving oral sex is almost lost on a younger man. Please don’t be offended, you won’t really understand until you hit middle age and then only if your partner discovers the secret also.hang over his belt buckle. Men and women are sexual being until death and that means you too.

A young man’s response is pretty obvious, he thinks she’s going to do it, he gets hard, she starts, and very quickly he’s responding in a way that make it difficult for her to continue without addressing issues like the gag reflect. It really doesn’t matter how much a women enjoys giving oral sex, or doesn’t; everyone has this reflex, when something gets too far back in our mouth, we gag. It doesn’t mean she isn’t enjoying making him feel good or the play, but it might sound like it. With the added presence of seminal fluid even prior to ejaculation, not all women are thrilled about giving “head.” For a young couple, the entire act can end up being too short for her to learn how to cope with these things or for her to get any pleasure by doing it.

As a man ages, just like women, his body changes, he is much slower to get “hard” and hard isn’t quite what it used to be at 18. Other changes affect the quantity of seminal fluid both before and during ejaculation. This is why oral sex can become the, not so secret pleasure of  older women… yes, I said “women.”

The older male penis is much slower to respond, than its younger counterpart. When you were both younger, foreplay was mostly for her; his penis was standing firmly erect awaiting release from the moment the idea of sex crossed his mind. Ladies can now finally play with the toy that he’s been playing with all his life.

There are so many things that can be done with her tongue and his non-erect penis. As it moves through the stages from soft to hard, the tongues movements can easily change with it. He’s in less of a rush these days and she’s less likely to have to adjust her movements to his, making it far less likely that the gag reflex is going to be triggered. Even better, the decreased presence of pre-ejaculation seminal fluid removes most of the difficulties that some women experience and even orgasm is much easier to handle in the delicate way she prefers.

The National Sex Study reports that 53% of women in their 40s state that they perform oral sex with their partner, yet that figure drops to only 23% once they reach their 60s and even further with each decade thereafter. What the study doesn’t say is how many of those asked are living with a partner to be intimate with. I’d be hesitant to read too much into the results.

Ladies, keep in mind that oral sex can be a major sexual pleasure of middle age and beyond and a new way for you both to explore sexuality with an aging body.
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One Response to “Sexuality and Aging: Oral Sex”

  1. Warren Lyons says:

    As a man in his late 50s, a practicing physician, and a lifelong recreational sailer, I have learned to apply a lesson learned on the boat to the bedroom; When the wind won’t fill your sails and they are hanging limp on the mast, you can always fire up the auxilliary engine, and I advise my male patients to do the same

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