Tokii Lab

Put simply, bedroom boundaries are important because sex is important. In fact, research suggests… it’s really important (but if you pay much attention to Tokii, you already know that)! In a nutshell, it increases intimacy long after clothing is hurried back on, it elevates mood, it burns calories and well – the list of benefits [...]

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Compatibility Finding points of compatibility with your partner can be tricky anytime, and while trouncing around in the sheets is no exception.  Contrary to popular belief, compatibility doesn’t always emerge as a mystical relationshipism that “just is.”  Sometimes even highly compatible couples search long and hard before stumbling upon those magical points where the values [...]

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C’mon, you know you want it. “It,” of course, is dirty talk. Sometimes our relationships don’t just want a little intoxicating intonation, they actually need it. “Speaking or hearing erotically charged words stimulates dopamine transmission, which plays a huge role in sexual excitement,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista and She Comes First. Recently, [...]

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You’ve heard the complaints. “He won’t talk to me”or “She never shuts up.”  Communication is a big problem for an awful lot of couples. For many, it’s the number one problem — the hinge that will either hold the partnership together or send it careening down the highway of relationships past. There is one place [...]

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…Double-As?  For what purpose, pray tell?  Listen up, ladies. We’re talking to you this time… in hopes you’ll talk to your man, later. A study unveiled at the second annual Women’s Sexual Health State-of-the-Art Series conference in conjunction with the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, may change the way you think, feel and talk [...]

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Sex toys have been around since our prehistoric ancestors realized that a smooth stone fashioned into a phallus would stay a lot harder and last a lot longer than the real thing. However, it wasn’t until the Victorian-era that sex toys really took off. It’s safe to say that Victorian-era prudishness directly led to an [...]

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This article contains sexually explicit content. To paraphrase former US Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart, it’s not always easy to define hard-core pornography, but I know it when I see it. And boy, have I seen it (and seen it and seen it again). Odds are, you have too. After all, why else would you [...]

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Here’s how it’s going to be!  As the 21st century marches on, men are taking a beating out there.  We’re all for Feminism and equality, but sometimes a man has to draw a line in the sand!  Here’s the new rules for serendipity in the household, if we all stick to the game plan, there won’t [...]

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“The bonds that unite another person to our self-exist only in our mind.” -Marcel Proust Taking out her mobile phone, Jenna stopped to think for a moment. Every day she sends her husband Kyle a brief text message just to reach out and let him know she’s thinking about him. Usually she texts, “Hiya,” “Thkg [...]

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If nothing else, EL James knows how to stir up some big time controversy with her hot new novel, Fifty Shades of Grey. There are such a myriad of emotions floating around on this book and exactly what it does and does not represent. Oddly enough, the opinions that men have on it are considerably [...]

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