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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it” – Truman Capote Masturbation is a sticky subject—especially for women. Although more men than women masturbate, masturbation is a “particularly important predictor of sexual health and happiness for women, more so than for men,” says Noam Shpancer, Ph.D., a professor [...]

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Birds do it, bees might do it and, chances are you have done it, will do it or are, most likely, doing it right now. There’s an old joke that goes “98 percent of men masturbate, and the other two percent are liars.” According to studies by famed sex researcher Alfred Kinsey and others, that [...]

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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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There’s an old saying that goes, “The brain is the biggest sex organ.” New research bears that out in ways early adherents to the maxim couldn’t have imagined. In one Emory University study, a group of 28 men and women were exposed to erotic images while an MRI took pictures of their brains. The pattern [...]

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If you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, you’re familiar with the sexual trajectory. The sex typically begins with a bang (in the bed, the kitchen, the back seat of a ’96 Taurus), eases into a comfortable twice-a-week-just-because-you’re-awesome tradition of mutual respect and love. Finally, given enough time, it often coagulates into a don’t-come-near-me pile [...]

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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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Put simply, bedroom boundaries are important because sex is important. In fact, research suggests… it’s really important (but if you pay much attention to Tokii, you already know that)! In a nutshell, it increases intimacy long after clothing is hurried back on, it elevates mood, it burns calories and well – the list of benefits [...]

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In a changing world wrought with the hustle and bustle of economic, technological and political advances, it isn’t surprising that once-traditional definitions of loving, emotional unions are evolving, too. For most couples, “partnership” is still defined by two people in a mutual and exclusive union. Some, however, married and unmarried – limited only by their [...]

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Compatibility Finding points of compatibility with your partner can be tricky anytime, and while trouncing around in the sheets is no exception.  Contrary to popular belief, compatibility doesn’t always emerge as a mystical relationshipism that “just is.”  Sometimes even highly compatible couples search long and hard before stumbling upon those magical points where the values [...]

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