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By: Theresa Theresa is an experienced relationship and addiction counselor and mental health expert. According to an ongoing study in the United States, it is estimated that approximately 2.5 million adults are sufferers of a gambling addiction and there are another 15 million people who are under the risk of developing a gambling addiction. Gambling [...]

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In a changing world wrought with the hustle and bustle of economic, technological and political advances, it isn’t surprising that once-traditional definitions of loving, emotional unions are evolving, too. For most couples, “partnership” is still defined by two people in a mutual and exclusive union. Some, however, married and unmarried – limited only by their [...]

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If you scratch the surface of any couple out there, you’ll find a gold mine of inside jokes and idiosyncrasies that, when it really comes down to it, go a long way to explaining a couple’s overall dynamic.  It can be simple as a morning routine, nicknames or love notes, and it can go off [...]

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Living with someone you love doesn’t mean you need to see them every waking minute. Sometimes you just need your own space, which is what recently fed my desire for an office. Sure, prior to making space for one, my only options were computing from the couch, or while crammed into a corner of the [...]

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Managing a blended family can be one of the most difficult tasks that anyone will face in a lifetime. Today, a blended family is the norm rather than the exception. If you’re part of a blended family, more than likely you already know how hard it can be to make things work. Today, blended families [...]

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  When Is It Ok To Have An Affair? To get started with this, let’s get one thing clear. There is no right or wrong answer to this question.  On one side you will have people tell you that in no way, shape, or form is having an affair okay. Then on the other side [...]

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  I’m a “Dog person”. We have three dogs that live with us, a Dachshund and two huge Great Danes.  They’re all boys and they’re all attitude, I love them!  They take up space and when they’re not taking their epic walks they’re taking up all the couch space anywhere we are in the house.  [...]

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If you married your high school sweetheart, it may be difficult to know in advance what type of spending and saving habits you each have. However, if you and your partner were both living independent, adult lifestyles by the time you married, it should be no surprise how you each handle your money. According to [...]

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This November, Tokii put out a challenge to our terrific community of members:  Put together a video about you and your partner, how you got along or how you didn’t.  We offered up a sweet reward for the best video and we were overwhelmed by the response we got over the next three months, and [...]

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It doesn’t matter if it’s your first move or your fifteenth, moving is a lot of work and it there is always a hitch or two. Although it’s not always possible to foresee everything that can go wrong and avoid it, there are many things that you can do in advance to minimize the difficulties. [...]

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