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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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While “friends with benefits” gets all the press, there’s something else going on between friends that, although rarely discussed, is far more commonplace. It happens when romantic partners become so comfortable with each other they disregard their sex life entirely. Let’s call it “friends without benefits.” If intimacy with your partner is declining even as [...]

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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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Note: Anger, envy, gluttony, greed, lust, pride and sloth. Whether or not committing one of these sins will destine you to an eternity stoking Satan’s furnace is up for debate but one thing’s for sure, committing them in a relationship may leave you all alone and out in the cold. In this seven-part series, writer [...]

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Amie Martin – When she’s not tripping over Legos or happily existing in a pretend “princess kingdom” with her girls, Amie Martin can be found utilizing her skills as a master-level social worker, writing and – if any time remains – being a nut with her buddies. Relationship Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come:  Part III [...]

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Amie Martin – When she’s not tripping over Legos or happily existing in a pretend “princess kingdom” with her girls, Amie Martin can be found utilizing her skills as a master-level social worker, writing and – if any time remains – being a nut with her buddies. Relationship Ghosts of Christmas Present, Finding Contentment TODAY:  Part [...]

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“The good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it” – Truman Capote Masturbation is a sticky subject—especially for women. Although more men than women masturbate, masturbation is a “particularly important predictor of sexual health and happiness for women, more so than for men,” says Noam Shpancer, Ph.D., a professor [...]

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Amie Martin – When she’s not tripping over Legos or happily existing in a pretend “princess kingdom” with her girls, Amie Martin can be found utilizing her skills as a master-level social worker, writing and – if any time remains – being a nut with her buddies.Relationship Ghosts of Christmas Past:  Part I of a [...]

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Birds do it, bees might do it and, chances are you have done it, will do it or are, most likely, doing it right now. There’s an old joke that goes “98 percent of men masturbate, and the other two percent are liars.” According to studies by famed sex researcher Alfred Kinsey and others, that [...]

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Some people seem to have everything—a great career, plenty of money and happy, healthy relationships. So often, those very same people are what scientists refer to as “jerks.” Why do bad people always seem to get what they want, while the rest of us “good people” often find ourselves unfulfilled? As we wallow in unsatisfactory [...]

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