Tokii Lab

Congratulations, you are now hitting the reality stage in marriage. Fortunately, every couple experiences this stage and may have difficulty transitioning. One challenge is managing social media and technology, which is a growing problem in this stage and if not addressed can produce serious distractions. Matter of fact, Sherry Turkle wrote a book titled Alone [...]

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Impeccable question. The underlying issue (inevitable wearing off of the “new love euphoria” that all couples eventually experience) is actually addressed in the question itself (setting realistic expectations and firing up the cooling engines). About expectations. Let’s just put it out there right now to disarm it: Sex. Changes. For everyone. It changes over time [...]

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No doubt, the act of sex, like many acts and institutions left to human discretion, has been abused.  As you eloquently point out, all you have to do is turn on the nightly news to hear stories of the types of abuse and misuse (of the sex act) you describe. There’s little doubt that collectively, [...]

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