Tokii Lab

In response to requests for Tokii to answer questions from members and the public at large in a frank and direct way, we have brought onboard, a tough talking, calls it like he sees it individual,  Straight Shooter Steve. From time to time, Steve will field your questions in his unique and blunt style. Be [...]

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Several years of being the woman of many men’s fantasies has created some sizzling memories for Kyra.  She’s traveled with dignitaries, kept company with royalty, and hung out with rock stars, even being in some of their videos.  Born and living in London, Kyra’s special services have always been in demand.  Her high level of [...]

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First, my deepest condolences regarding your loss. It has long been said that there is no more devastating thing a couple (or even a person) can experience than the loss of a child. It doesn’t seem the natural order of things. Because it is so fundamentally difficult a loss to experience, it comes with it [...]

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  Hi.  A tough situation for sure.  At the time you’re in the thick of things, it can seem like an earth-shattering balance must be struck (you know the one:  seeming cool enough to continue the superficial game of fun and sex while still maintaining your dignity and having your needs met).  Stepping back a [...]

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This relationship sound more like “train a man” instead of “value each other”. Understand that EVERY relationship enters a phase where they battle  how the relationship will look. For example, if your partner wants sex once a month and you prefer twice a week then there will be an intimacy battle until resolved. It seems [...]

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Outspoken Democrat, James Carville, and his equally-politically-feisty Republican wife, Mary Matalin, make it hard not to view passionate political differences in a somewhat romantic light. The fact is, however, the famous, political couple is more the exception than the rule when it comes to mixing love with politics.  Why?  The way we view politics speaks [...]

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Contrary to the behavior of – say – EVERY GUY IN THE UNIVERSE, guys don’t really want their girl to be easy.  It’s almost like he’s got an internal dialogue going on that goes something like this: If she’s into it, I’m definitely NOT going to say “no.”  If she’s not into it, this is [...]

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Luckily, to be a sexual go-getter you don’t need to do a lot of talking—you just need to do! I’m tempted to quote a very famous athletic wear slogan here, but I’ll restrain myself, since it probably popped into your mind already. There’s a lot of truth to the idea that sometimes we over-think ourselves [...]

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First, this is a really tough situation, and there’s no easy answer. Start by knowing. You’re not alone. 3.3 million men (11.1% of U.S. fathers) are reported to live with at least one stepchild in the U.S. I can assure you that while each family comes with its own, unique look and feel, divorce is never [...]

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Why living together may end Kanye and Kim. Congratulations to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West for making an important life decision to purchase their 11 million dollar home.  Now the real relationship test begins. Living together will challenge their ability to work together as a couple and as they maneuver through the relationship phases they will [...]

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