Let me tell you a secret. Teaching a man to please you is a lot like training a puppy—and you’ll be doing this pup the favor of his life by training him properly. All you have to do is take his hand while he’s touching you and whisper, “here’s the magic spot.” As you guide him, say: “right there…that’s where I’m most sensitive.” Then demonstrate how you like to be stroked by moving his fingers, too. Or, if this seems awkward, say, “Watch me; I’ll show you how I do it.” Then touch yourself the way you would if you were alone. After a few moments, guide his hand and say, “now you try.” Then lay back and let him experiment. When he gets it right, murmur, “Yes, that’s perfect.” When he’s off the mark, gently move his hand once again. Patiently repeat the same instructions as many times as needed—just like you’d do with a frisky cocker spaniel. The sweetie in your bed should wag his tail and live to please you just so long as you praise him to the skies for all the right moves—and give him treats when he does an especially good job!
Of course, some men do require a little a little more by way of explanation. If, after a few training sessions, your guy still seems a bit lost, draw him a picture. Literally. With a sheet of white paper and a colored pen, draw simple outlines of your ladybits and be sure your clitoris is a nice big circle—like a clock—so that you can show him where “on the clock” you’re most sensitive. For instance, lots of women say that the 1 & 2 or 10 & 11 are their power-spots.
If you approach this as a brief, sexy lesson—not a criticism—he’ll appreciate your help, and you’ll relish the outcome.
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